You Cure Pain with Kindness

I’ve heard a saying: You cure the pain with pain.

I don’t agree, pain pains others, and adding pain, even to yourself, does not create any less pain. Sure, some say it is a temporary solution, but in the long wrong it's not the best choice.

You have to love the hurter when they hurt you. If someone hurts you, don’t tell them, shrug it off, continue being nice. If you show your weakness, it might make them attack more.

People who talk badly about others, most likely talk badly about you. No one is really mean, they are just mean because others have may have been mean to them in the past and in the present, and it may be the only way they know. If you are caught in a situation like that, break the chain, swallow your pride, you will be rewarded for it in the end. If someone is being mean to you, break their chain by being gentle, ignoring them, being the "bigger person." They may be confused at first, and may attack harder, but if you show no aggression, then they may open up. By doing so, put a crack in their chain, they will remember it, and may become less aggressive with other in the future. You are the one that can set in motion a chain of events for a better world.

Everyone plays the game, let them play, don’t entangle yourself in their games, let them fight each other to be the best. Be yourself, even if no one loves you. Do your own thing, others will follow if they want to, at one point or another. Even if they don't, that's fine too, I personally would rather follow my own moral code and fail, than breaking my character and winning. I may have won on the outside, but I know I will have forever lost on the inside.

But it's ok to make mistakes, I have made many, and will continue to make them until the end. One learns more from their mistakes than from their victories. It's the ability to learn from your mistakes that is most important.

Follow your ideas until the end, no one has ever achieved anything by going half way. 

DON’T BE AFRAID!

Fear's only weapon is just that, to make you scared. Once you conquer the fear, it cannot do anything to stop you.